Psychological disorder relating to jealousy and possessiveness

Dear Ask The Doctor: I am a woman of 22. It would take a little long as I want to provide every detail that might be important. Three months before I met a boy whom I had known by face and by name for more than a year. After a long conversation both of us discovered that we were very alike, became good friends and kept on enjoying our time in actually pleasurable conversations, mainly on culture, education, society and philosophy. After one month we started living together and both were happy to accept each other perfectly as we were. Gradually I realized that I wish to have him as my life-partner and at the same time he also expressed similar inclination. As we got very close to one another and had actually a very good understanding, we independently felt that each of us should let the other know better about ourselves. So, never did any of us felt any need of hiding facts about our past relationships. I am quite appealing, not only sexually but more for my personality and a very strong character. But after after sometime I could perceive that he had not been able to take my past normally, specially because of some peculiar kind of relationships that I had with some highly established and talented people. Now all the time he is asking me the reason for my being with him. He has lost not only his trust on our relation but also his reverence for himself, is suffering from terrible inferiority complex, has lost his dynamism and rational thinking abilities. He is considering himself not worthy of having a woman like me. To my utmost fear, he has started hurting himself, scratching his body with blade, torturing himself physically. He thinks he won't be able to satisfy my libido while in fact I'm quite satisfied with him and much less bothered about sexual pleasure. all the time I'm trying my best to be most compassionate to him but he is actually going beyond any control. Out of jealousy and extreme possessiveness, he has started talking and behaving in a manner that someone belonging to our class of society cannot normally think of. And now he is telling me that he had had similar kind of personality problems while being in another relationship about three years ago. Soon he will be completely shattered. I want him back at any cost. Please help.

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