Bedwetting and back pain

Patient: I have wet the bed all my life. i am 40 years old now i have back pains all the time and finally come to a conclusion i’ll have to live with it.i get numbness here and there and everywhere.i get 2 to 3 servre headaches a year and only way to get rede of them is to go to sleep if i can whats going on?

Doctor: