Can't do it, painful


Q: Hello doc.

I had an experience with a guy before long time ago, when I slept with him I kept bleeding for 3 days. I was a virgin but after that I went to the clinic and they told me I'm not virgin, and the reason of that blood was the way of he pushing, it was strong and fast. It was painful, and I didn't try doing it again. Now I'm getting married soon, I tried it with my husband but it is so painful, I can't stand it. I'm still scared of that amount of blood, and the pain I felt, I don't know what to do, I need your help, because I tried to do it more that 5 times, but we fail. I don't want him to get bored of me, of course we want to have children and be a family, waiting for you help.



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