Erection Problems, Possible Nerve Damage, Quick Ejaculation

Patient

Q: Hello,

My boyfriend is having some sort of issue with his penis. He's 26, 20 lbs (at most) overweight, doesn't smoke or do drugs, rarely drinks, and exercises moderately. This is our first month of dating, so I don't feel comfortable having too much discussion with him concerning this. First of all, I believe he lacks some feeling in the shaft of his penis. He tells me he likes it bitten, but when I bite and bite harder, he keeps telling me to keep biting, because he doesn't feel it. Second, he cannot seem to get hard enough for sex no matter how much I talk dirty and orally/manually stimulate his penis and scrotum. He says it feels good, and when I think he might be getting hard, he goes back soft. Also, I never taste any pre-ejaculatory fluid on his penis. When we attempt sex, his penis simply isn't hard enough to go into my vagina. It keeps bending, so we give up. Half the time, it just is hard enough to be inserted and when we have sex, he ejaculates very quickly. Please help!

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