Thanks for the query.
your association of sex with irregularity of cycles is irrational though it is an observation, but the cause is not sex but immaturity of reproductive hormones in your age group. These menses generally regularise by 15-16 years of age. So the symptoms you are experiencing are a part of PMS and commonly seen prior to menses. So rest assured.
Hope this helps you.
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