First time sex


Q: I have been married for 2 years and living together for 4 months now. we have been trying to have sex and we fail all the time. Sometimes, I dont turn on, I dont allow him to insert and very afraid of the pain. I am not too sure how to have sex. He is being very patience with me and am being too reserved and sensitive. I very badly need your advice to get over my problem. I need to know the correct way to have sex. It feels like something is blocking to allow him insert. I tried using my finger and am not able to. Please help. Please provide me drugs and advice.


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