First time sex, and why it hurts when I finger her


Q: My girlfriend and I have been together for 6 months. We have recently been talking about having vaginal sex, and we realize that two forms of contraceptions are necessary. My question is, when I finger her, why does she tell me to stop due to pain when it seems she is just about to climax, and when will we be ready for sex? She doesn't have a hymen, not sure why it would hurt her at that point. She also doesn't masturbate, the only time she gets pleasured is when I finger her. So getting pleasured is new to her.


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