First time sex issue


Q: Hello
my boyfriend and I have been unable to have sex for the first time because as soon as he starts to penetrate it is not only painful for me but i start to loose arousal. I am very aroused just before he penetrates but as soon as he starts to penetrate I feel like i have an orgasm and am not turned on any longer. I am very wet just before penetration so that is not a problem but right after it loose that momentum and we cant go any further. what can i do? it is very frustrating for him because he is always very erect but painful for me afterwards


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