Patient : I am 18 years old, started having sex 4 months ago and have done it like 10 times, my girlfriend has give me oral sex and hand jobs, but no matter what she can't get me close to orgasm. I can orgasm during masturbation alone and in front of her, but when she is using her hand or mouth or we are having sex I cannot orgasm. I don't know what to do, everything she does feels good, it just isn't enough. I like her a lot and am sexually attracted to her, it is just frustrating that I can't orgasm. I have read about porn addiction, so I stopped watching it (I rarely watched it even before we started dating). That has had no effect. I don't know what to do or if something is wrong with me.
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