Patient : Hi
My wife and I have been married for 5 years. We have never had a good sex life. Even on our wedding night she didnt want to have sex. She feels pain when even the tip of my penis enters her. If I were the every day asshole I would have left her by now. I have tried everything to make our entire marriage great and honestly she is my best friend. If sex didnt matter to both of us there wouldnt be a problem but it means nothing to her and I have become an asshole from my needs making me mad. She has no need or want for sex. Even when we do do it. She is down right awful. I do get her off several times but she still hates sex. Foreplay she loves as long as nothing gos inside of her. She is 30 I am 26 and we married in 2006. I have tried everything to make it awsome for her. She doesnt get wet at all. We have to use lube but I know that is only designed for enhansing her natural lubricants. She refuses to see and obgyne because when she was younger in the philippines she was taken to see one because of severe dysmennorea and hormonal imbalance and the doctor did something in her anus and she freaked out. I guess the doctor didnt want to break her hymen but I dont know what she did to my wife but my love life sucks. We were both virgins when we married in the philippines and now were back in the US. Im a disabled vet of the US Army and I have one of the hottest woman I have ever seen as my wife and we never have any real sex. I have a 10 inch long 3 inch thick dick and I have never even gotten more than three inches in her before she says that it hurts to much and she just wants to jurk me off. I am losing my mind and need help. I never want to lose her but I need sex and always will. I wont ever cheat but I will leave if this cannot stop. I need a natural over the counter med for her because I cant get her to go to the Gynecologist. Help please
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