Help to what to do next?

Patient: Hi there i haven’t been able to sleep well for a very long time and concentrate or even sit still its been like this my whole life, i did’nt mind it what so ever till recently i finally got a great girl and a fantastic job and a child on the way but now i am at risk of lousing my job because of the lack of concentration whats wrong with me every one tells me i have really bad adhd but i dont know how to calm it down i tried every type of herb to treat it but no luck things like valerian, and hops and multiple others of these families but no sucess what should i do couse i took the day off today to try to get some help and sorry for my english im from poland and my girl friend is telling me to say that i dont smoke pot couse i mentioned the herbs i dont do any recreational drugs