Herpes or scabies

Patient: Last year around this time I was raPed and two weeks later I was checked diagnosed with chlymadia and ghonhera. Three months later I was clean. I started back having sex in November and got diagnosed with teichomasis. That person has two kids so I figured he was clean. Now since like January I have noticed little small bumps. They fade away but come back. I don’t know if it’s herpes or genital warts . Tonight I noticed a lump on my left lip on my vagina. I’ve been itching like crazy lately. Because I use to live in a shelter and a girl had lice. We interracted slot but they tolde not worry because I’m black. Is this scabies ? Can I getit in my mouth too?