Hi I am 21 years old and i decided to start

Patient : Hi I am 21 years old and i decided to start family with my partner but i didnt bleed at all when i had my 1st sex about a month ago (yes i have been virgin before this) and also it hurt me so much that it was almost unbearable and it made me cry, my 1st worry is me not bleeding because i have heard different things that a girl must bleed on 1st sex and also i have heard it doesnt matter whether the girl bleeds on 1st sex or not so please tell me about it. My 2nd problem is that i have been having sex pretty regularly but i am not getting pregnant i just did a pregnancy test couple of days ago, i was thinking it might be due to me not bleeding & sometimes i also think it might be due to length of my partner's manhood (its around 4 to 5") i think that it might doesnt penetrate deep enough & thats why it didnt brake my hymen & thats why i am not getting pregnant as his sperms might not be going in due to hymen still being there, Am i right to think all this or there might be any other problem? I have been stressing myself so much that my partner is getting worried day & night because of me but i cant tell him the reason as i want to know it myself first only then i can discuss it with him. Regards Eliza Michale
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