Thanks for your query.
You can certainly lose your virginity, if you are talking about tearing of the frenulum by harsh masturbation.
This is a very personal topic and you may please also consult a Counselor.
You can use a good lubricant and enjoy, do not be harsh and most important do not be afraid as no one is bothered about your virginity other than you.
Hope this helps you
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