Hi, I'm Rachael I'm 14 and I did "things"


Q: Hi, I'm Rachael. I'm 14 and I did "things" with my boyfriend that him & I both regret doing. We never had actual sexual intercourse, but I know that he did ejaculate near my vagina. He did it on my back side, if you know what I mean by that, and I'm thinking the semen might've ran down and got in me somehow. I looked up things that same night because I was scared and I wanted answers. This happened five days ago. I have a friend my age that got pregnant close to two years ago. Her baby was born around Christmas, but I asked her some questions on what symptoms she had and how her family took it. This was after I looked more things up a little bit ago. I haven't paid attention too much to this until today, but I've had this white, milky discharge. I saw on a website that this discharge normally happenss immediately after sex. I think I might've had this discharge ever since it happened but I didn't pay much attention, like I said, but this morning I went to get a sports physical and got to school late. When sitting in the waiting room of the doctors office I started getting lower back pain and cramps, which I still am having right now. I also felt gassy. I was expecting to start my period today, tomorrow, or the next day, I'm not sure on the exact day I'm supposed to start because I lost track a little bit. But I should start in the next few days. Normally when I start my menstrual cycle I feel no pain whatsoever until I start bleeding. This morning I started to get a little freaked out because I was getting ready to go with the nurse back to a room and I just started my period, but I also started freaking out because I'm totally aware of what happened between me and my boyfriend the other night and I couldn't feel any blood or excessive moisture. I still thought I started my period though. On the way to school me and my mom stopped by the dollar store to buy some pads because I didn't have any at the time, because I forgot to grab some. When I got to school I went to the bathroom to put one on and no blood. I put one on anyway just assuming that it was just going differently this time, I've checked numerous times all day and still no blood. Just that white discharge. I'm honestly terrified, and I need some explanations of some sort.


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