Patient :Hi, me and my boyfriend have had anal sex a couple times. After those couple times I've seen noticed a change around my butthole. There's A really soft flesh colored lump, it can be mistaken for a hemorrhoid I'm not sure, but it's 100% painless and it only comes out when I push. I have asked friends who have done anal sex and they've told me to look at a pornstars butthole. Of course I did. One who did anal sex continuously. Her hole was very open and when she pushed out her butthole I guess came out. I'm not sure how to describe it. I looked that up and they referred that to a 'cauliflower butthole' and it was normal. Can this have happened to me? Or can it be a hemorrhoid? Embarrassed I ask for help.
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