I can not ejaculate and I don't know why


Q: I can't ejaculate during any kind of sex, only when I masturbate. I recently got a girlfriend(2 months) that took my virginity at 20 years old(my age now) and I enjoy sex 10x more than masturbation, ITS AMAZING, but for some reason I can't ejaculate! how can I fix this?

Symptoms:  Can't ejaculate

A:   Thank you for writing to us.

You may have been masturbating too often and your body is only able to reach an orgasm with masturbation.

I recommend that you stop masturbating and stop having sex for 1 week. This should help you to have orgasm during sex. If this does not help you, please see a Doctor.

He will diagnose you and then start you on necessary treatment. All the best.

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