I have a spider bite on my face on my

Patient: I have a spider bite on my face on my right cheek. The bite has been painful, itchy, red and swollen for 3 days. It feels like it throbbing and is hot to the touch. I have also noticed the swelling has stretched to my neck and also left me some kind of lump in front my my ear that feels feel under the skin just wondering what kind of at home remedies or treatment is recommended? Thank you

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