Thanks for your query.
The picture does not correlate with the problems you have.
Ingrown toe nail with hared purple skin indicates a chronic nature of the problem. You say that you can not cut the skin or go to the Doctor.
Your question is how to get rid of the problem:
You can use the nail-file and file-up the mid portion of the nail in such a way that it is thinned in the middle only.
See with time the sides of the nails will be automatically lifted -off the mass and you may get a relief.
If this fails go for a formal surgery.
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