I have never orgasmed and I need help


Q: Hello, my names Zoe.
I need some help with a personal problem.
I have been sexually active with my boyfriend for about a year now and I have never orgasmed.
Its frustrating me now more than it used to and its annoying him too.
We have tried so many different things, different positions, angles, even tablets, nothing has worked.
Occasionally I do get the sudden feeling that would lead to an orgasm, but it never lasts for very long, at most I think i have felt it for 10 seconds.
I'm started to think that I might need to get some help.
Can you recommend anything?


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