Q: Okay, me and my love have tried multiple times to actually penetrate. Every time though, it hurts so much I make him stop. After, it burns for a while and I feel like i'm being ripped or something. I haven't bled yet, so I'm assuming my hymen is still there and if it is I'm afraid it's either too thick or there's too small of a space for anything to get through. What could be the problem? Everything is plenty lubricated enough, we're both ready and have been for over a year, I've comfortably done things myself (without going in). Everything's normal except it hurt too much to bear when we try to have sex. What's wrong?


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