Patient: Hi!! i am in a loving relationship…however my partner suffers from depression. she previously was txting a friend of mine over a year ago but he completeely blanked her when she told him of her problems! after this rejection she tried to commit suicide! luckily she failed. this was approx 7 months ago! i didnt know her at any stage in this! then 4 months ago we met and started txting and about a month ago we started goin out! however she still hits serious bouts of depression over his rejection! am i hindering her recovery by being with her?? as she says me and the lads remind her of him and all the shit!! wat can i do to convince her that the feelingd will pass and that i love and care for her??