Please help me asap im in so much pain

Patient: I have a large bump on my left lower jaw line that’s extremely painful tender swolKen and very red I’ve been putting warm rags on it and rags I’ve added essential oils to. Well it opened up and I pushed out blood and clear fluid but I stopped cause I am to scared of making it worse now it’s so big it looks like I have a dip in on the lower side of my face. I have no idea what to do I’m in alot of pain

Symptoms: Redness swollen and pain