Please help me with my sex life and my bowel

Patient: Hi, I had sex today and half way through my sexual partner said I was bleeding a little bit, and that has happened before so neither of us were concerned, but tonight I went to use the bathroom and the bowl was red and I am not sure if it was for my urine or feces when I was finished- I also currently have some sort of eye infection on my right eye and I am feeling congested?