Patient : My boyfriend and I split up about 7 months ago and yes i did have sex with my ex husband. However, the reason why I left the house we had lived in for a year and a half was I had quit drinking 6 months prior and my boyfriend didnt and he drank alot every day. I was always sad or mad or both. Finally i left, hoping he might realize that i was not happy and do something to change things. Well, he didnt. I admit that what i did was the wrong thing to do but at least i went to his house and i told my boyfriend what i did and that i needed some time to figure things out. So in return, just 3 days after i had left he was at my work (a bar)right across the street from where i was staying and ended up taking a girl we both knew and one of his friends ex wives home to "our" house. They obviously had sex and he didnt tell me. Our roomate told me two days later. He told me and has been telling me that the sex was bad, he doesnt and hasnt liked her, that he is not attracted to her but yet he came in her, did not use protection and cannot explain how he came if he didnt enjoy it. Is this medically possible? I cannot get over it and it has and is causing us serious sexual problems now! Any advice?
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