Spreading Penile Rash Possibly on Tongue (?)

Patient: Ever since I was about 3 I had a few small red bumps on the head of my circumsized penis. But ever since it has spread at what seems a rapid rate. Now almost my whole penile head is covered in these bumps and it is spreading down the shaft. I fear that my girlfriend is getting these bumps on her tongue from giving me oral sex. I’m not sure though if they are spreading to the tongue. Please help me I’m scared that I have some weird spreading penis rash. I’ve found some pictures online but this man also has Pearly Penile Papules on the rim of his head that I do not think I have. Thanks.-max