Patient :Hi, my girlfriend and I want to move to the next step and have intercourse. She is very worried as she has not been with anyone for several years.
I've tried to be very gentle and have spent plenty of time with foreplay, which she enjoys, but when it come to any kind of penetration, she tenses up and I can't get near her. We have tried lubricant, but she is very tight and said it still really hurts!
Can you suggest anything that my keep her from tensing up and make things easier for both of us?
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