Patient: The father of my daughter sometimes has dilated pupils. They aren’t on drugs at all. There was a rumour he had bi polar. He doesn’t have many friends. He is very successful at his work. He is very hyper active. When you talk to him he feels like he looks through you and doesn’t ever feel like he is listening. On occasions he gets very agitated if I’m talking and tells me to shorten my story or not to talk about it at all. Always feel I’m walking on egg shells. He ignores me for days at a time. He never takes responsibility for any of his actions as he says “it’s all your fault”. He gets me to say sorry for things although he is the one who was in the wrong. He breaks my things secretly. He punishes me for things like saying “I was going to take you to the cinema – but I’m not now”. But the main thing I notice was he was extremely hyper and happy, Really happy. When we ere together he was always on dating sites looking for a “perfect relationship”. I found him on sex search sites and he told me it was a joke. He doesn’t and didn’t have empathy. If I had a headache he would tell me to go to sleep to get better and he said to the children not to make any noise because “mummy” was sleeping then he used to rev the kids right up do they made loads and loads of noise laughing. He used to encourage the kids to hide chocolate from me as I might tell them off. I’m not with him any more but I wanted to know if this sounds like bi polar or does he have something else along side. He left my little girl in the car once on her own when she was 2. I have a little girl with him and I am concerned about this and what to expect as he has done many things that question his care.