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The neuro-immunology suggests that stress and effect the immunity and which in turn can modulate the allergies. The allergies do increase with stress and the fact that the welts disappear with benadryl suggests that histamine hypothesis is true and the lesion are allergic.
Try relaxation therapy like meditation or yoga to de-stress yourself.
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