White drop in urine

Patient: Sir i have a problem since 4 year when i go to washroom and start stool passes some white drop passes in urine. my hand do vibrate and backbone pain started and penis also week now a days.if its is natural soo how to overcome these problem and weekness issue which i m facing now a days,I have committed with some one if this problem will not solve i have to break my relation.plz consider my problem .thanks