Why does my boyfriend never want sex? He's 26 years

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Q: Why does my boyfriend never want sex? He's 26 years old, 6'4" and about 400 pounds. We have sex maybe once every ten days and it lasts less than 10 minutes. We've only been dating for two months, so it's not like the newness has worn off. He's told me because he's always in physical pain from his job that he never wants it. Also, he claims that he doesn't want it... Even when he's well rested. I'm 21 years old. 5'4" 215 pounds. I want it multiple times a day. I'm beyond stressed and fed up over feeling like I'm not wanted. Could his size or diet have anything to do with his sex drive?

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